Friday 31 December 2010

Is there a retirement age from spirituality?


What can I change in life? 
There is only one thing we can change - the way we see things.
Can we apply this truth to the ageing process? 
We can change all kinds of things around us.       
We cannot abolish the ageing process; death is certain.
What can we do? 
We can see our ageing process differently.
We must face the facts of ageing: 
if we fail to do this, we miss the treasure that lies hidden in our fears.
Ageing brings diminishment.  You can fill in the details for yourself! 
Besides physical loss, there are the mental and emotional pains which can accompany loss of job, of status and of independence.  Regret for past losses of close relatives, friends, for broken relationships, for injustices suffered, for the harm we have done, the good we have failed to do. There is also the pain we may suffer from ‘nice’ people, who put us firmly into the elderly category and treat us as helpless objects of their compassion!
Here is an imaginative exercise you can do to enable you to catch a glimpse of the treasure within you.  Write the kind of obituary you would love to have after your death.  Do not let reality limit you in the slightest.
Keep asking yourself  ‘What do I most long for in my life?’  That is the most valuable search you can undertake whatever your age.  You have started on a journey of discovery.  Yes, you have thousands of desires, but keep searching for the deepest.  The process takes time, a lifetime. We shall never find a neat, clear answer.  The answer is greater than anything we can think or imagine: the search is worth every moment.  It is the diminishment we are suffering which is forcing us down to new and very painful depths of ourselves.  We are becoming aware of our fragility, our feelings of helplessness and hopelessness.  To acknowledge to ourselves the truth of this experience is the first step to discovering the treasure.
The poet Francis Thompson called God ‘The Hound of Heaven’, who pursued him down the arches of the years until God cornered him, then spoke:-
Halts by me that footfall:
Is my gloom, after all,
Shade of his hand outstretched caressingly?
‘Ah fondest, blindest weakest,
I am he whom thou seekest!’
Our pain of diminishment is the pain of desire, the desire to let God be the God of love and compassion to us and through us, and this God is nearer to us than we are to ourselves!     
                    
                                   Gerard W. Hughes sj  Edinburgh

Due to weather conditions not many people were able to attend Father Gerard’s talk but we were able to film it – we have a limited number of DVD’s available but could get more if response is great. Cost £5
Please contact info@fiop.org.uk  if you would like a copy

A Coming to Terms


On Monday, 9th August, as part of the ‘Festival of Spirituality and Peace’ held at St John’s Church Edinburgh, an audience of around 150 heard a conversation between Simon Callow and Malcolm Goldsmith which no-one present will easily forget.

The subject was ‘Living with Dementia: My Mother And I’, and Simon began by filling in the picture of his mother’s life and personality predementia. He described her as displaying ‘containable eccentricity’ and being ‘rather a quirky woman’. She had always had a very imperfect memory and wrote everything down. 

She experienced ‘a mental and physical collapse’ at the age of 87, and it soon became clear that the combination of paranoia, malnutrition and dementia made finding a nursing home for her an imperative.  Simon commented on ‘the astounding difference between homes’, but he managed to find one in Central London which proved to be near-ideal.  It was small, modern, well-designed, run by an enlightened group of doctors, and progressive in its ethos.  Music and art were a focus, there was a beautiful garden, and an emphasis on activity and humour.  Simon commended the caring staff, many of whom were from ethnic minorities: every day was treated as special, and there were many celebrations held in a family atmosphere.

Despite all the social opportunities, however, his mother had, he believed, ‘embarked upon a journey of re-evaluation internally’.  Gone was the fanatical Catholicism of her earlier life; now she was ‘thinking, trying to solve a dilemma’. Coming to terms with someone with the condition, he suggested, ‘you transcend the individual relationship and embrace common humanity’.  I was struck by the congruity of this process with FIOP’s definition of spirituality as ‘developing an understanding of what gives meaning to people’s lives.’  This was a thought-provoking morning for us all.
                                      John Killick

Thursday 30 December 2010

The Spiritual Journey And Well-Being In Old Age

Faith in Older People was delighted to have the opportunity to organise this conference held in the Glasgow University Crichton Centre for Research in Health and Social Issues which brought together participants from churches, health and social care to consider the importance of the spiritual journey for older people.
 This was presented in terms of old age as a time for celebration, by Rev. Malcolm Goldsmith, in which we approach ageing with a sense of wonder and contentment and continuing creativity so that our journey towards death is not met with fear and apprehension but rather with gratitude and a sense of mystery.   “The problem with ageing is not age – it is petrifaction – a rigidity of the soul – inflexibility.  It is when we close our minds to our responsibility to ourselves and to others to keep on growing”, (Joan Chittister).  Although there are some wonderful examples of the support provided to older people in congregations it was felt that this needs to develop and new ways of providing a presence found.

Ageing as a spiritual matter was the theme of Dr. Harriet Mowat’s presentation.  We must capture the story of individuals to reinforce that lives have been meaningful; what will to be remembered about us and who will hold our memories; do we allow time to review and reflect upon our lives and to allow time for reconciliation.  What is important is to live in the present and have opportunities to be creative and playful.
Professor David Clark gave an overview of end of life issues and considered the traditional approach to death as being sudden, accepted, having rituals and probably at home but contrasted with modern end of life being gradual, more secular with less ritual and in hospital. Post modern he felt was unpredictable, with a stronger focus on personal spirituality and a consumer choice as to where to die.  There was a strong focus on the hospice movement and who should take responsibility for spiritual care at the end of life and how do we prepare staff and carers to undertake this role.

Jenny Henderson through practical exercises and examples illustrated the importance of being able to communicate well with older people who had dementia.  It was more than speech.  It was thinking of ways to help them express themselves and their needs through a variety of creative ways and ensuring that we adapt to their individual requirements.  This required time and patience.
The presentations were followed by a lively Panel Discussion

“A most encouraging event, with some very impressive people” (Conference participant)
The conference was a collaborative event between, Faith in Older People, Glasgow University, Scottish Episcopal Diocese of Glasgow and Galloway and the Church of Scotland.  We received support from St. John’s Dumfries; ACTS and Glasgow University.


DVD ‘Spirituality – Have you found any yet?

This DVD, jointly produced by FiOP, Alzheimer’s Scotland and Artlink, was previewed at the recent Scottish Caring Conference and formally launched at the FiOP Conference on the ‘Spiritual Journey and well-being in old age’ in Dumfries in May.


The aim of the DVD is to assist those who care for older people to understand better their spiritual needs and to find ways of enabling them to be fulfilled.  Spiritual care is not easily understood.  The work undertaken by Alzheimer’s Scotland in the Beyond Barriers’ project and the Palliative Care Initiative together with the work undertaken by FiOP in ‘Delivering Spiritual Care’ has highlighted the reservations and discomfort of staff in discussing the issue with residents and relatives.

We hope that the DVD will help to de-mystify the issue and give clues to considering this important aspect of our lives.  Spiritual care is made up of many factors and we have looked at the issue in terms of ‘what gives meaning to people’s lives’.

The conversations in the DVD open up these issues for staff and residents and there are case studies and questions for discussion.  We do not attempt to provide answers but to ensure that the issue is given the importance it deserves and that people become more confident in exploring issues which contribute to a holistic approach to care.
The DVD has been widely circulated to all care homes in Scotland and its use will be evaluated over the coming months.  A workshop on the DVD has been included in the forthcoming Dementia Services Development Conference in London in October 2010.

If you would like FiOP to facilitate a discussion or training session based on the DVD or to obtain copies of the DVD please contact  info@fiop.org.uk

North of Scotland training programme


In the Autumn, and before the snow came, we ran three day workshops in the North of Scotland in Inverness, Skye and Aberdeen. The intention was to offer residential care home staff the opportunity to take a day to think through some of the issues around ageing and spirituality and the implications of this for spiritual care for older people. We were delighted with the response to our invitation. The workshops were intended to accommodate only 12 people – in two of the three cases we were bursting at the seams. However it was good to see such an interest in the topic. 

The day consisted of three parts. We thought about our own ageing and what that might mean in terms of our understanding of the ageing of others. We considered the challenges of working in residential care and the pressures on time and energies for the staff. We also thought about what “successful” ageing might look like. In the afternoon we thought about the spiritual care of older people using an exercise called cards on the table. This allowed the group to share ideas and develop their thinking around the priorities and  practicalities of spiritual care. We finished by looking at a model of spiritual care that has been developed by a group of healthcare chaplains and researchers working in the North of Scotland.  This is now written up and about to be published in the Scottish Journal of Health Care Chaplaincy. 

Harriet Mowat
March 3rd 2010

Community forged through preparation

We all need something to look forward to, and after this long hard winter the hope that Easter, and the return of Spring, offers is vital.
As I write the crocus are out, and the snowdrops are still with us, almost a month later than usual, but soon, with the increasing warmth of the sun everything will come in a rush and the movement of sap from root to tip will break out in a riot of green, however old or gnarled the trunk.
Celebrating the greening of our countryside or the festival of Easter is easy.  We do it with flowers and hymns, with chocolate and eggs, with services and family outings. 




But it is the hard work of preparation, the prayers and the Lenten fasts, winter ploughing, pruning and digging over, the sending out of invitations or spring cleaning the house for the family visits that sets the scene and makes it possible.
Recently my teenage daughter was involved as a choir member in her first big performance – Carmina Burana.  It was wonderful, a celebration of musical skills and efforts – from young and old, those starting their musical life and those with many years of skill to offer.  As I left the hall I realised that the work that had gone into making it had produced a real sense of community amongst the performers.  They were buzzing and now rightly proud of their achievement - firmly connected across age and skill range in the joy of what they had made between them. 
It’s as much the preparation that goes into a celebration as the event itself that leads to a meaning filled sense of community.

As we enjoy Easter, and Spring when it comes, let’s make sure that we take the time to share the work of preparation for any celebration with all ages in our community.  Remember, it’s in the “doing together” that we find meaning, as much as in the ultimate burst of hallelujahs or outbreak of chocolate!
         Mary Moffett
“We are not called by God to do extraordinary things
but to do ordinary things with extra-ordinary love.”
Jean Vanier

Caring Memories


The very word technology can leave a lot of people cold and the speed of change over the last few years has been quite bewildering; casting up an ever growing array of gadgets and gizmos. However, developments in the world of printing have enabled one company to produce personalised photo albums, or memory books that can form a lifeline between people with Dementia and their carers.
The albums are designed to encourage life story work, an exercise that academics have shown both encourages communication in dementia and also makes that communication pleasurable, as it introduces a feel-good reminiscence factor for the person whose life story it is. Chris Wilkins is behind the Edinburgh based Caring Memories and it took two years to develop the album, in conjunction with experts at the Dementia Services Development Centre at the University of Stirling.
“Basically, it’s about capturing memories from a person’s life,” he says. In dementia, when short-term memory is impaired, “a lot of long-term memories are still alive and very vivid. So life story work is about tapping into those memories, and using various triggers to help people recount their past.” The Caring Memories book is structured on these well-established life story principles, and provides a project for the memory-impaired person, along with their family and carers, to focus on as a basis for communication, says Chris. “It’s an activity which has therapeutic value, and lots of other benefits—it means that the carer, for instance, sees a person rather than a disease, and there’s a relationship you can build on the basis of that.”
One such book has been made by Mary and her daughter Ann. Mary who is 84 and has Alzheimers, is a resident in an Edinburgh Care Home. For Mary and Ann, the entire process, from putting the book together to using it on a day-to-day basis has been an overwhelmingly positive experience, says Ann. Assembling the book took, “a good few months,” she explains, “because we had to get pictures and then sit at the computer with one of the volunteers who was helping us put the book together and making up the wee story from things mum was saying . . . we would just look at the pictures, and mum would tell us a wee bit about the pictures, and that was how we managed to put the captions in. We had great fun doing it.” The project came at just the right time to help distract both of them from the initial bleakness of  Mary’s move into the care home, says Ann, providing them both with something positive to focus on. “It was nice to have something that we could come in and do together, something to look forward to each week.”
The finished product is also a success, she reckons. And it is striking how simply opening the book seems to bring Mary to life. As she leafs through the pages, the pictures elicit fragments of stories from her; laughter; the odd tear—but they are mostly happy memories, and Mary’s enjoyment is obvious
Chris Wilkins – www.caringmemories.net



CAMEO at Christ Church


In April 2008 a small group began meeting at this Edinburgh church, to look how the needs of the more senior members of the congregation could be met.  The main impact was the organizing a quarterly Holy Communion service, on a Wednesday afternoon, in the Church Centre.
The aim was to provide a traditional service, in an easily accessible setting, which could be followed by socializing and tea.  As some of our members have mobility problems, taxis are arranged, provided by the church, to bring folk to, and fro, the event if needed.



In July that year we held our first CAMEO (Come and Meet Each Other) day.  The theme was ‘the Festival’ & a couple of artistes, who perform in street theatre, came and enabled us to make a large collage, to hang in church during the Edinburgh Festival.  They also gave us a performance of juggling and acrobatics, after the Holy Communion service in the afternoon.
The next CAMEO day was held in June 2009, with the 70th Anniversary providing the theme of ‘The Second World War’.  This evoked many memories, including what it was like to be child in Germany at that time.

As the quarterly service had grown in popularity we made the decision to hold it monthly, from September, with the planning group meeting every other month to decide the themes and organize each event.
The Communion service has remained central. This is followed by readings & reminiscences and then tea, provided by the Mothers’ Union, which have been part of this event from the start. The delicious home baking, the fresh flowers and colourful serviettes are much appreciated.

In 2010 we hope to build on what has evolved, and enable more people to be able to come. A guest book reminds us who was there. The ratio of helpers to guests is usually one to one, with often over twenty people enjoying the time together.
We have decided to call ourselves the Cameo Group, as this how we are known!  Sometimes the themes are obvious, such as the ‘Carols at Christmas’ and ‘Remembrance Day’. 
In January we had chosen ‘Winter’, before realizing how snowy it would be!  This evoked memories of other severe winters and, for a few, the Cameo event was the only time they had been out in weeks.   Gill Davidson

At this time of year

At this time of year, when spring is all around, how many of us rely on being able to go out and experience it for ourselves - time to watch the birds or see and smell the new flowers and blossom.  Perhaps we take our freedom to do so for granted. Do spare a thought for those in care homes; hospitals or who are housebound, who would love to smell the spring, but realise there may be no one who has the time or insight to help make this happen.

 




Keeping the Spirit Alive

Most of us would like to think that we will end our lives at home -surrounded by people, objects and memories familiar and important to us.  But many of us may spend our last years, weeks or days in some kind of health or care setting.

Faith in Older People has just completed an action research project, Delivering Spiritual Care – in which we conducted interviews with staff in three residential homes across the country to find out how staff understand the spiritual needs of older people.  

What is “spiritual care”?

Our research found that spiritual care is being provided but it is not understood in those terms.  Staff and residents do have an understanding of the importance of this thing called “spirituality” but struggle to articulate quite what it is.    Carers tended to assume that spirituality meant religious observance.  This meant they did not recognise that they were already delivering spiritual care in their daily activities with the residents. 

Being recognised first as a person with a full life history and having it acknowledged by word and deed is of crucial importance to the way in which an older person will experience their time in residential care. 
Allowing residents time to talk and reflect on what really matters to them, in the past or the present, is part of this. 

The staff interviewed recognised that there were activities which were part of the daily routine which enhanced the spiritual lives of the residents, baking, being given choice over food, being supported in doing as much as they could for themselves, and celebrating special events together. 
One of the points the care staff made again and again is how important fresh air is to the residents - it lifts their spirits.             

Training   

The results of interviews and observations were discussed by the project team and used to draw up recommendations for training programmes with the staff in care homes.  The message was loud and clear: keep it short and keep it regular in order to fit in with their busy shifts
Some topics they thought could be covered included:
  • creative activities as a way to talk about or reflect on spiritual issues. 
  • the possible emotional upheaval surrounding transition into care for the individual, the family and the consequences for the care home staff.
  • the spiritual issues surrounding death for both staff and residents.
It was clear from staff that they would welcome on-going support in meeting spiritual needs in order to enhance the well-being of their residents. 

They identified some of the issues they thought should be covered including how to convert “normal” caring practice into spiritual care.

Our report “Delivering Spiritual Care” has been presented to the Scottish Government, Older People and Age Team, who had funded the project. 

The project was conducted by
Faith in Older People with
Dr Harriet Mowat
of Mowat Research. 

Download Delivering Spiritual Care

Let's Get Personal - Personalisation and Dementia

Alzheimer Scotland Report

Personalisation provides choice and control to the social care user, with services that orientate around their lives; it can be considered a right of citizenship. It is not just about what services can do, but about ensuring that services work with the natural support provided by people’s friends and family and with wider community resources.

However, personalisation is not widely practiced; very few people with dementia and their carers in Scotland have genuine control over the support they receive.
This report identifies the barriers that limit the wider implementation of personalisation and provides key recommendations that will enable the majority of people with dementia and their carers to personalise their care and support so that it is meaningful to their lives.

Order online via their website
www.alzscot.org
Or phone on -
0131 243 1453


Single copies of the report are available free to people with dementia/family carers in Scotland via the 24 hour Dementia Helpline 0808 808 3000

A Reflection

Where does this journey begin and at what stage can you deny me my selfhood and my spirituality?  As I lose an identity in the world around me, which is so anxious to define me by what I say or do and say rather than who I am, I can seek an identity by simply being me, a person created in the image of God.  My spiritual self is reflected in the divine and given meaning as a transcendent being. 

As I travel towards the dissolution of myself, my personality, my very ‘essence’, my relationship with God needs increasing support from you, my other in the body of Christ.  Don’t abandon me at any stage…. sing alongside me, touch me, pray with me, reassure me of your presence… I may not be able to affirm you, to remember who you are or whether you have visited me.  But you have brought Christ to me.  If I enjoy your visit, why must I remember it?  Why must I remember who you are?  Is it to satisfy your OWN need for identity?  If I forget a pleasant memory it does not mean it was not important to me!

These are the words of Christian Bryden, an Australian with Alzheimer’s who spoke at a conference in 2002

A Civic Café Event

This was a new venture for FiOP in partnership with the Festival of Spirituality, Edinburgh Interfaith Association and St John’s Church and enabled us to begin to consider issues around spiritual care and ageing in relation to other faiths.  The style of the event provided an opportunity for different perspectives to be offered and for people to be involved in several discussions in small groups around a table and to write their thoughts on the table cloth for the next group to see.

Our table hosts included representatives from the Sikh community; Care Commission; NHS Chaplaincy; City of Edinburgh; the Scottish Dementia Working Group and members from the Christian community.

The key issues which emerged included the importance of the oral tradition, of storytelling; respect for the individual and their culture and traditions.  This included the value of stillness and silence and not feeling that you had to be seen to be ‘doing’ all the time.  People with dementia still retain an emotional memory of encounters with people even if they have no conscious memory so that it is still possible to develop a relationship with them through touch, singing, smell and familiar rituals.  To achieve these things care services needed to be responsive and to have a greater understanding of the role of spiritual care and different faiths.



FiOP hopes to continue to explore ageing in an interfaith context in the coming months.



Sat on Granny’s Knee by Charlie O’Sullivan




I recently went to an Art Fair in Edinburgh and was totally entranced by this painting.  Charlie has given us permission to use this, together with the little card that she put at the side of the painting and … given the context of our work …means the painting “speaks” even more:
Granny Riley was a very special lady and taught me so many things about life.  Sat on her chair with her waistcoat on and always a shiny brooch, she would tell me simple stories of her life, the places she had been and the people she had known. 
Having lived in Scotland all her life she had many stories to tell.
This story is about the first time she saw the Clyde whilst buying a fish supper with the wages from her first job in Glasgow. 
She was adopted and always wondered who her real parents were – she often imagined them sailing down the river and off into the world without her, but by her watching they would return. 
I loved my granny’s knee.

The painting is reproduced with permission from the Artist  - the printing does not do justice to the vibrancy of the original which is an acrylic on wood, sized 80cm x 80cm and is for sale at £3750 from the Steam Gallery at Beer   Copyright © 2003 Marine House at Beer.   
All rights reserved. (Fore Street, Beer Nr Seaton Devon EX12 3JB)
More info on Charlie, including a video and a pod cast, is available on their website: www.steamgallery.co.uk                       
Jean Myers

Worshipping with People with Dementia


On 9th November Sue Kirkbride from the United Reformed Church in Edinburgh together with Mary Moffett from FiOP, led a workshop on Worshipping with People with Dementia. 
16 people came from a wide variety of Christian denominations and social care backgrounds. 
We spent some time exploring some of the statistical and medical facts about dementia.  This is always a popular subject in workshops as it helps us understand and empathise with the experience of dementia. 
Much new work in the last five years has been done on understanding how relationships affect the wellbeing of people with dementia.  The Church community and visitors and their attitudes have a vital role to play in embodying and sharing what is “best practice”. 
We also explored some of the theological ideas of Stanley Hauerwas & Jean Vanier.  If we are truly to be “the body of Christ” in our churches and community then we need to realize both the importance and centrality of including everyone, whatever their brokenness and gifts. 
Jean Vanier’s recurring theme is that it is in the caring for, living with and being present to people who have disabilities, as equals, that we learn how to be fully human and more Christlike.  People with dementia are just that, people who have the disability of dementia, and people who are every bit as much a part of the body of Christ as those who consider themselves “normal”!
Sue Kirkbride then shared some of her examples of worship that have worked well over a number of years. 
She has found an emphasis on music and images has been fruitful, and emphasized that words, unless they are familiar or “off by heart”, should be kept to a minimum. 
Expecting to share the “good news” of the Gospel in wordy sermons or lengthy prayers is not appropriate.
Her creative approach and excellent examples were very encouraging.
A workshop along similar lines is planned for May in St Andrews offered through Pilgrim Care but please ask if you would like us to offer one in your area.       

AGM - Debate - Is there a difference between good person-centred care and spiritual care?

The Debate

One of FiOP’s aims is “to promote and deepen understanding of the spiritual care needs of older people wherever they are situated”
We know that many people find spiritual care difficult to define and through a range of events and materials we have tried to de-mystify the issue and to bring it alive for those who provide care - whether physical, emotional, mental or spiritual
In October last year we brought together Professor Mary Marshall, recently retired as the Director of the Dementia Services Development Centre in Stirling and the Rev Malcolm Goldsmith, the founder of FiOP to debate:
Is there a difference between good person-centred care and spiritual care?
The event was superbly moderated by Professor Frank Clark, Convenor of the Scottish Commission for the Regulation of Care and held in the Lifecare Centre in Stockbridge, Edinburgh.
The event was very well attended with representatives from health and social care, academics, churches and individuals.

Prof Frank Clark, Prof Mary Marshall.
Rev. Malcolm Goldsmith.
 
Revd Malcolm Goldsmith.
In his introduction Malcolm Goldsmith clearly stated that it is not person-centred care versus spiritual care but that it is important to consider the crucial areas of overlap. 
There are many definitions of spiritual and his favourite was Mel Kimble’s (2001):
“The spiritual dimension is the energy within that strives for meaning and purpose.  It is the unifying and integrating dimension of being that includes the experience of transcendence .. and the mystery that is at once overwhelming and fascinating, that renders my existence significant and meaningful in the here and now.  It is also a mystery in that it is unmeasurable, unprovable and lacks universal definition.”
But how, Malcolm argued, do we translate this view into everyday terms.  We have to unpack some archetypal images; the stories and myths by which we live, the poetry which communicates beyond rationality; attitudes derived from youth which provide continuity and for some a sense of guidance through life acquired through a spiritual power.
He emphasised  the fourteen spiritual needs of ageing identified by Koenig in 1994 and pointed out that at least 11 of them could be seen as identical with person-centred care and had a particular focus on the ‘need for meaning, purpose and hope’ in coming to terms with our lives.
Our spiritual needs encompass the need to be included; to be comforted; to be occupied, as it gives us a sense of urgency and sometimes a chance to give time and help to others.  For Malcolm this included his need to be quiet, on his own, relating to nature because to be calm he needed to hear birdsong, feel wind and rain and smell soil and leaves.  For others this might be music, art or expression of faith.
For Tom Kitwood all these elements needed to be fulfilled to achieve good person-centred care.  It is vital that we maintain and reinforce identify and Malcolm held the view that faith and worship meets all these needs for some people.  Again some people can transcend poor physical care and poor health but for most of us our body, mind and spirit are profoundly inter-related.
Malcolm gave several examples where the spiritual insights go beyond good person centred care.  One was of a well known hymn ‘O love that will not let me go’ with the verse that says “ I trace the rainbow through the rain and feel the promise is not vain that morn shall tearless be” which takes up the biblical myth of the flood but which provides a powerful image to share with someone in deep distress and opens up a whole treasury of spiritual wisdom and experience.
He concluded by saying that he would always want to be treated in the context of good person-centred care but that he would not wish to be bereft of the stories and myths that had sustained and been of fundamental importance to him.
Professor Mary Marshall
The focus of her presentation was to talk about people with dementia and the importance of getting care right for them.  If this happens then it is possible to ensure that care for everyone is right.
The definitions of 'person centred care' are those developed by Tom Kitwood who was a vicar turned psychology lecturer.  He was enraged by the type of care given to people with dementia in the 1980's and 90's and he gave voice to a whole set of new approaches to the understanding and care of those with dementia.
Professor Marshall made two clear points:
1. Good person centred care is the same as spiritual care – people use different language.
2. There are dangers in suggesting that spiritual care is something different and special.
What Mary meant by good person-centred care was about maintaining and enhancing personhood and quoted Tom Kitwood’s three approaches which she believed should be taken together.  The term personhood, together with its synonyms and parallels can be found in three main types of discourse;
those of transcendence,
those of ethics and
those of social psychology. 
“The functions of the term are different in these three contexts but there is a core of meaning that provides a basic conceptual unity.
Discourses of transcendence make their appeal to a very powerful sense held in almost every cultural setting, that being-in-itself is sacred and that life is to be revered.  Theistic religions capture something of this in their doctrines of divine creation. 
In Eastern traditions of Christianity, for example, there is the idea that each human being is an 'icon of God'.  Some forms of Buddhism, and other non-theistic spiritual paths, believe in an essential, inner nature, always present, always perfect and waiting to be discovered through enlightenment. 
Secular humanism makes no metaphysical assumptions about the essence of our nature, but still often asserts, on the basis of direct experience, that the 'ultimate is personal'.
In the main ethical discourses of western philosophy one primary theme has been the idea that each person has absolute value.  We have an obligation to treat each other with deep respect and never as a means towards some other end.” (Kitwood)
The principle of respect for persons it was argued by Kant and those who followed in his footsteps required no theological justification; it is the only assumption on which our life as social beings makes sense.  The parallels to this kind of thinking is the doctrine of human rights and this has been used theoretically in many different contexts, including that of dementia (Kings Fund 1986).
Mary’s contention was that if spirituality is considered to be additional and essential then it would undermine the confidence of those providing person centred care and that the potential of the language of spirituality being considered as superior could be divisive when the focus should be on meeting the needs of people with dementia effectively.
The speakers raised interesting and varied issues which stimulated many questions from the floor which was pleasing as it demonstrated that there is an active interest in the topic and much to be explored. 
We would like to receive your views on whether you feel there is a difference between spiritual care and good person centred care and how you enable the spiritual care need of older people to be met.
Please email your response or question to: info@fiop.org.uk


Annual General Meeting
At our AGM we said goodbye to one of our Trustees, Lissa Smith, who was thanked for all her support and encouragement as she has been with us from the beginning.
We welcomed two new Trustees – Geoff Lachlan and Helen Thompson – a full introduction will be given to them in our next newsletter. Please contact the office for a copy of the Annual Report and Accounts or see our website www.faithinolderpeople.org.uk




We are sorry to report that Malcolm Goldsmith, for reasons to do with his health, has decided that he should step down from the Board of FiOP.
Malcolm is the founder, inspiration, and driving force behind FiOP which he set up after he was Rector of St Cuthbert’s Colinton (1994 – 2002).  His focus is on celebrating the gifts of age and he combines his academic and practical experience grounded in theology to ensure we see people as individuals and not as symptoms of illness or decline. Malcolm has consistently contributed to the growing understanding of the importance of spiritual care through his books – ‘In a Strange Land’ and ‘Hearing the Voice of People with Dementia’, as well as through his presentations at international conferences and locally based training. 
I have known Malcolm since he arrived in Edinburgh in 1992 and have worked closely with him ever since. The effect he has on us all is a measure of his personality and persuasive charisma.
All those associated with FiOP and its objectives owe Malcolm a debt of gratitude. We join in wishing him the best for the future.
Christopher Davies
Chairperson, Faith in Older People